Your girlfriends tell you that you’re perfect, that you simply haven’t met the right guy yet or that your last one was a douche. They tell you never to change, to wait and just do you. But here’s the thing- they’re wrong. While they get off and get engaged, married and have babies you’ll still be the single fifty year-old woman, who has no one to love you but your dog and said friend. So breathe, learn and change. Like a good AA program, the first step is acceptance. You’re a work in progress that just so happens to require a lot of work and tons of progress.